I spent extra time debating my outfit in front of the mirror before going to work yesterday. It was a pre-pregnancy outfit, and the shirt was stretched tight around my waist. Was it accentuating the bump in a way that was cute? Or, was the whole look kind of slutty-pregnant, which worked fine for Rachel Green in Friends but would be less appropriate for a fourth grade teacher at a classical school?
Finally it got to be 7:00, and I was out of time to put together an alternative outfit. I figured I’d just go for it, reasoning that I could always hide out in my room more than usual if I decided to hate the outfit by the time I got to school. No worries, I would just lay low.
So I got to school and was immediately reminded by a flier on my desk that this was not a good day for laying low after all– it was picture day. So now my belly bump outfit is front and center on the picture that will be blown up to a large size and framed in the school entry hallway. Just for icing on the cake, the skirt I chose to wear yesterday is the exact one that I wore in last year’s school picture! How embarrassing! Hopefully some little squirt in the front row is giving bunny ears to his neighbor, and everyone can focus on that instead.
April 22, 2009 at 7:06 am
I guess this is a good opportunity to remember my mother’s wisdom– I used to worry about what people thought of me, until I realized that they didn’t.
April 22, 2009 at 7:29 am
I’m glad to know something I said stuck with you. I’m not sure if that is the MOST important thing I ever taught you, thougn.